Recently in a sermon by Dn Philip Shee, he pointed out that many tend to listen sermons for others. What does he meant by that??
How often do you find yourself acknowledging within you that such-and-such a person should listen carefully to this sermon - it is so relevant to them! They should change their ways just like the speaker suggested or just as God requires....
That is exactly, what Dn Philip meant. It hits me like a brick! Although, I do not consider myself more righteous then others or having the "holier than thou" attitude... I can't help but realize that I do, at times listen for others - quite naturally.
Could it be our upbring and/or education system that had inculcated this natural trait of comparing ourselves with others? And usually, it is against our stronger capabilities that we'll affirm ourselves that we're better. Just like the parable below....
Lk 18:10-14 - "Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as the rest of men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. I fast twice in the week; I give tithes of all that I get. But the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote his breast, saying, God, be thou merciful to me a sinner. I say unto you, This man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be humbled; but he that humbleth himself shall be exalted."
How often do you find yourself acknowledging within you that such-and-such a person should listen carefully to this sermon - it is so relevant to them! They should change their ways just like the speaker suggested or just as God requires....
That is exactly, what Dn Philip meant. It hits me like a brick! Although, I do not consider myself more righteous then others or having the "holier than thou" attitude... I can't help but realize that I do, at times listen for others - quite naturally.
Could it be our upbring and/or education system that had inculcated this natural trait of comparing ourselves with others? And usually, it is against our stronger capabilities that we'll affirm ourselves that we're better. Just like the parable below....
Lk 18:10-14 - "Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as the rest of men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. I fast twice in the week; I give tithes of all that I get. But the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote his breast, saying, God, be thou merciful to me a sinner. I say unto you, This man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be humbled; but he that humbleth himself shall be exalted."
We often tend not to reflect upon ourselves in most situations... and most quickly assumed it was someone elses fault.
Lord Jesus highlighted that is often not good to indulged ourselves in such behavior without checking on ourselves frequently. This will led us to be proud or worst becoming a hypocrite, just like the Pharisee in the above parable.
Lk 6:41-42 - "And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother`s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how canst thou say to thy brother, Brother, let me cast out the mote that is in thine eye, when thou thyself beholdest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam out of thine own eye, and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote that is in thy brother`s eye."
I thank God that I'm generally conscious of my thought, words and actions. Often the first thing that comes into mind is to reflect upon myself to see if I, too was guilty. I think this is a trait that I've to be thankful to my parents too, who had often taught me and reminded me of the need to always consider our actions and be considerate to others.
Since such comparison come naturally to us, it would be good if we also consciously learn to empathize with the others that we're compairing with and ask God to help them. At the same time, be conscious of what we had just done and reflect upon ourselves that we're not found guilty of the same.
May God help us all....